My WH wants to reconcile with me but I am seriously questioning what happened with OW. When he moved out, he was only gone 1 week when he called wanting to return. After I found out about EA (6months) and PA (1 weekend) with this person, he says she meant nothing and shows no signs of withdrawal from her. Just me. He is not living here so maybe I just don't see it. Should I take this as a good sign? or should I see it as either he hasn't broken it off from her or is he still not dealing with the emotions that got us here in the first place. I guess I want to know if anyone really thinks you can just turn off your feelings for the OW. Oh and PS.. the OW gave my H an STD. (Maybe she was cheating on him too <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> )