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the papers will be going to the lawyer on Monday!!!
I guess that is a good thing!!! I don't see STBXH changing his mind.
I wish I had taped Dr Phil today, I don't see the grass being greener for STBXH, I believe that he has some very hard times ahead of him!!!!
Monday I think I can handle with no problems. I am wondering if he will be taking her to Vegas next weekend to get marrried, that bothers me for some reason, our kids still haven't meet her and he is going to introduce them the first time as his wife!!! UGH!!!!!!!!!!!that sucks!!!!!
Oh well it's Friday night and I plan on finding someone to go out with me, GF from work mentioned going to the Blues club!!!!
I am not going to worry or fret anymore about this over the weekend!!!! Will deal with it Monday!!!!
Dawn <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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enjoy the night, take things as they come, remember - you can only influence some things in your life, not all. especially not those related to a WH who decides to get a drive-thru marriage in LV!! N
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Dawnie - just sending my support.
I actually felt a strange sort of vindication when my WS and OM married. I guess it felt like the final proof that they were nut cases. I mean, how more nutso can it be to take vows with your affair partner?
You "sound" well. Enjoy the weekend as I intend to.
Dave
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Thanks to you both!!! I plan on having fun!!!!
He will only see after he is unhappy what it is he has done!!!!
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{{{{{{{{{{{Dawn}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Only worry about what you can control, give the rest to God, & be there for your kids.
Love,
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Hi Dawn, Hope you had fun last night! I wish I had seen Dr. Phil on Friday. Some day, they will realize that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. I have used that phrase so much when talknig about my STBX and OW (considering the cirumstances of our situation...it really makes sense LOL). I hope that your H will take the time to introduce OW to your kids before he takes that leap. Hopefully he will have enough sense to do that.
You had asked about my job on a recent thread but I never got a chance to answer and then I couldn't find it! Anyway...I got a job at Sears for the time being. I just started the other day and, so far, I really like it.
Take care Dawn...hugs to you! BH
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Thanks alll for your responses, thoughts and prayers!!!!
Last night was ok!!!!
Had a great day today, OD didn't bowl so good so I have a chance to beat her tomorrow night!!!!Yippee!!!!
bh, I worked at Sears one time, in tools!!! Thought about going back part time great way to meet guys perhaps!!!! At least I would have something in common!!! (you should see my garage!!! it's full of tools and they were and are all mine!!!!)
I am sure that someday they will all secretly learn that the grass is not greener, probably wont admit it that is why it would be a secret!!!!
Have a great night all, am playing board games with my youngest and my brother!!!!
Dawn <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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