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I've been lurking here for a while. My XW and I have been talking and at times she has said she was coming back, but backed out every time.
I'm trying to get her to do something we always used to do together. I feel like this is my last chance to enjoy some time with her and have her enjoy some time with me. Just an evening together enjoying each others company. No talk about the A or reconciliation.
I have to admit I'd do anything to win her heart back.
I plan on pulling out all the stops. Use everything I know about her to show her how much I love her.
Am I doomed to failure?
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Welcome to the board!
"Doomed to failure?" - I think you know the answer to that one yourself, which is: "there's only one way to find out".
And: If it goes well, well - then you did the right thing. If it aint going to happen - then at least you can look yourself in the mirror and say: At least I've tried and gave it my best shot.
Not: try to give it your best shot. Do all the things mentioned under "plan A" (check the articles by harley)
good luck
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I've read most of the site and I've used to make up my own mind for myself.
I love my XW and I want to spend the rest of my life with her. She doesn't believe me and she doesn't think I could be happy with her or her with me.
I'm going to give it my best shot and show her how I feel. I hope she gives me the chance.
I let you know how it turns out.
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