My H called his mom for her Birthday and she was ready for him. She has hoping he would call her and has been rehearsing for weeks what she was going to say. She had not heard from him since Sept. when he drop the bomb we were separated and there was someone else.

My H and his mom have been extremely close and she welcome me into the family 18 years ago and has treated me like her own daughter.

My MIL has been very supportive towards me and she has disowned her son for leaving his family for this tramp. My MIL told H that she would never, never, never accept that woman in her life. My H tried to justify the A by blaming me. My MIL told him there was no excuse for the A and if he was so unhappy he should had gone into counseling to fix the marriage. My MIL told him that his sons were suffering by his selfishness and he stated that they seem happy whenever he sees them every other weekend. My MIL stated that her grandsons were happy because they were finally getting to see him and asked him what would he had felt like if his father had done this to her. H had wonderful childhood-intact family devoted father. I am so proud of mom-in-law for standing up for what is right and not backing her son actions. I feel very lucky to have her as my MIL and love her very much! I hope this conversation has some impact on the fog!

Im happy for the moment and wanted to share this.
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Lucky you to have such support from your MIL. When my WW told her mom about what she had done she only told her to make sure that she never told me about it and to never do it again. Of course, my W's family has full of alcoholism, drug-abuse, and criminal records, so what should I have expected? If your H is really that close to his mom, what she said should bother him a lot. I don't know if it is enough to bust the fog open, but it should work on his conscience just the same.

Good luck to you.