He's ignoring me as he looks for a place to live, tells sister that I was the one that called his job to tell OWH's brother that WSO is having an affair with her and some other things. First, I did not call, if I would have called I would have been more blatant and malicious!!I'm Not that type of person. So he told sister that is why he is not paying any of my medical bills nor any other bills that we have, since I am disabled and not on assistance you can see my hurt and pain. So I needed to vent as this just seems getting worse, no signs of "fog lift" only venom and distance from him. My other threads are on "just found out" well, I keep working on me, but as if he needs an excuse to justify his actions, he has use another lie to "feel" he has just cause. I do not know this man who stands before me looking straight thru me as I do not exist, but I do exist and have existed for 3 years with this man that has no remorse, conscious, compassion. I would love to see a light go on, but NO, not even close. He is taking all the money and leaving. No, even though we lived as we were married, it's not on paper, so of course.... I'm screwed. But, when one door closes, another opens. I love him, but he will have to go this journey alone as he has chosen his path, and I am on the sidelines working on me. You'd think he could be half way decent or at least somewhat kind. But he IS NOT THERE ... nothin behind the curtain.