Sorry to hear your story. It looks like your H needs help - big time. be it because he resorts to drugs, or be it because he is fleeing the real world problem. reality is catching up, and he has nowhere to go. at the same time, your concern shows that you still care for him to a certain degree and are willing to outreach your hand.
show it to him, tell him you're there to help. dont demand, be angry, or push him - just give him the bit of comfort and security he needs now.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by roseyheart:
<strong>It has been 9 weeks since D-Day. H left and dissapeared for two weeks, came back for 3 and now gone again for 2 with no contact with anyone. Due to past child support arrears, he was to be in court and did not show. Now there is a warrent. It's crazy, his ex does not want him in jail and wanted to work an agreement. She had not asked the courts to do any of this.
I pray each night for him to contact someone. I now believe it's either drugs or he is totally lost it, nervous breakdown. Although the signs of drugs did not seem to be there. This additional "out of nature" action is mind-boggling to me. Between the A and this, the pain/hurt is wrenching and I am scared to death of the future. I'm scared for him, the not knowing what's wrong. I'm scared for me. I feel like the hope is fading. I have to make some decisions on the financial side, as he has left me in heavy debt. I really don't want to face it, but I know I have to.
It will probably mean losing a car and filing bankruptcy.
Thanks for listening all. It helps to vent a little.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">
