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#1042522 11/26/02 12:23 PM
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How long is it going to take for this OW to mess up. She has done this so many times to other people. If your one of them love to hear your story. My H is losing everything he lost his job because of her our car because of her(she had it repo) he does not even call to see how our four kids are doing. Our five year old is reading for the first time and when I told him about three weeks ago he said Oh We are going out of town so I won't be there to pick them up. I miss him so much but not the person who he is now. What I don't understand is how he can tell me how much he loves me and that he does not want to ever hurt me again we made love not sex the weeks before he left. The week he left I was down with a cold nad he had most of the responsibilities with the kids and the house and then poof he becomes angry at himself saying he does not deserve me says that he should leave for a while does not know what he wants. The day he left he told me that he loves me always will then he does not come home. He is now living with OW at her house with her two teenage kids (ours are all under 5). He called and said that he could not take it anymore telling everyone that all we did was fight. Yeah when he told me about her thats all. We had a good marriage absoulty no one saw this coming. His close friends don't even know him anymore. I found out that he borrowed 1500 dollars from a friend for his attorney and is now hiding from him. I don't get it. This is a 180 from what he was What are the chances that things will fall apart for the A and that he will wake up and see that this is the biggest mistake he will ever make. He told me before that we can always get remarried I told him that this is it it is now or never. His remark you can't controll your heart. No I can't I will love him till the day I die I promised him that when we married. I would love to hear from some one from Lampasas Texas or anyone for that matter

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Where is that in tx, exactly. i am formerly from Flower Mound. Still have family there. Sorry for you worst nightmare. Been there.

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It is over by Burnet, Copperas Cove and San Saba.

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Hello there!
I am from Marble Falls TX. I grew up In Burnet! I am very sorry that you are having to go through this. Let me know If you want to talk!
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I would love to talk to some one close to home. I would not even mind talking to some one who even knows this OW. This whole thing makes me mad. She has done so much to hurt our relationship. From having an affair with my H, having our only source of transportaion repo(I am living with my parents and use thier van, he had the car so he could come see the kids whenever he wanted to and have a way to pick them up for visitaion he never did), trying to run me over(I filed a complaint with the local police department already and told him about it said he will talk with her), then her father from her I am sure filed a complaint with the Sheriff department(one my H worked for) that I was making hang up calls on her at work(that never happened why act like a child), saying that I told her that my H was in the hospital and then my fault for what she wrote on the internet about him and her and us. She even got him fired from the Sheriff department went in and told his sergant that they were having an affair and since they could not catch them in the act they fired him for not doing his job and not being where he needed to be. We are now in the middle of a D that I do not want. I have asked him many times if this is what he wants and that I think we can work this out. He said that our marriage did have way more good times than bad. Said many things along that sort. I have not talked with him in weeks since he called and said that they were going out of town and that he will not take up his visitaion. It hurts so bad. Before he left he asked me to remarry him and we were planning on a date for the two of us what went wrong I think maybe withdrawl all I know is that I want my marriage back but better. He said before I remeber that alot of people seperate or divorce and get back together more in love than before My heart hurts like H*** and he doesn't even care. I will always care about you you will always have a special place in my heart I don't know if I am in love with you but I love you what is all this?


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