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I just wanted to thank all of you for your support over the past several months as I've made my way through my separation. My WW informed me last night that she's signed the settlement papers so we will be getting a D after all.
What's really strange is I feel a measure of peace KNOWING what lies ahead concerning "us" instead of always wondering (it's been like this since she admitted A ~ 10/01). I've done all I can and it just feels like the time has arrived to let her go...Wish us both luck...........
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Congratulations? Or whatever.
Anyway, don't feel the need to bolt on out of here. Things may get better/worse at any time. Pop onin anytime you need to.
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Lichfield,
I think the most important is that you feel a degree of inner peace, which you seem to do. You can look yourself in the eyes and say: I've tried, I've stretched out my hand, I did what I had to do and did it well.
Now, move on, enjoy life and, as Chris writes, if you're on a downer, check in on this board.
Good Luck
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Litchfield,
This is a sad chapter, but not the end of the book. I am glad you have found some peace, don't go away completely, pop in here from time to time and let us all know how you are.
Wishing you all the very best from London.
Lisa
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