Thank you all for the insight from before. Well here is my update. Last night I had a huge fight with WW lot's of LBing. She told me get a lawyer and she was marring OM and moving away with him while he is in the military. Of course the first thing I say is I want our daughter to stay with me. Then we go on to talk about how much happier she is with OM and how much of a lazy [censored] I am. I'm not lazy. Who has a job and works to pay the bills? Me or OM? IT"S ME. Finally I hng up the phone so mad I can't see straight. Then WW calls back about an hour later like nothing has happened and wanted to know what we were going to do on thanksgiving with our daughter. Today she calls again and says she is sorry for the night before and she didn't mean half of the things she said. I said it was OK I finaly learned the real reasons you left. Then she wants me to come out and have dinner with her at work because OM is late. I said was sorry I already had dinner plans. I did it I finally didn't give in to her. OM was two hours late meeting her. It's funny every time he disappears an is late it's when he has gone to visit his son and his BS. I wonder if they are working on trying to get there marriage working. Oh well I'm only concerned about this one right here. Well I ventd for the daygoodnight

Hi Wrnglr,

Well at least you were able to cool it down and run to meet her immediate yet selfish need. Good for U.

Now what did she say about you taking care of your daughter?

L.

She says she wants our daughter with her. I get to see her whenever I want and I take her on the weekends. Today she said she didn't mean anyting she said the other night because she was mad. I says fine and leave it at that. Then she goes on to say the usual crap about how she and OM will never make it and she misses me. Then OM calls and it's back to we are over and she is happy with OM. I said whatever gave her the check for our daughter' insurance and left. She told me OM wants to beat me up. I hope he tries then it will show her how much of an [censored] he is. Well I'm going to go get ready to eat dinner. This is the first time in three years she won't be there. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> I'm not sure but I think she i getting really tired of OM. I'm just sitting back and watching everything blow up.