My H had vistiation today and we talked some before he left. Itold him that I was not happy with what her father was doing (filing a complaint with the Sheriffs Department on telephone harrasment not true Igot the phone bill to prove. And that I was not happy with the comment that she mad the they will come pick up their kids next weekend. He said that I did not have to worry about that anymore that he was moving out tonight I asked him where he was going to go he said that he did not know I told him that he could come back home and work on our marriage but that he has to want it and that he won't be easy but that what we have our children and us is well worth it. The thing is that we live with my parents and my father id pretty mad and hurt with what he has done. So I know that he is scared about that but I also said that everyone loves him and misses him but that trust will have to be earned this time around. He was still wearing his ring But the thing with the ring is this before he left he lost his I bought him a new one but he returned it we neede the money. He left us and when we talked a couple of days later he had a ring on and living with OW said it was not what I though it was. When he brought the boys back he did not have it on I asked him why and he really did not say anything. I said It's really over isn't it and he said that is not what he is saying at all. He is staying tonight with his mother I don't know anything other than that. He was in tears most of the time said that his Thanksgiving sucked. He misses the kids and I think that he misses me but I did not asked so what do i do. I have been plan Bing for the last couple of weeks should I continue or what HELP <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

I don't know the rest of your story but my toughts are this. He has moved away from OW and now you and OW are on common ground. It's really hard to get someone to come back when they live with the OP. That is my problem right now. I would be supportive and show him that coming home is a good idea. I would go back to plan A and just be there for him. OW will more than likly be trying to get him to come back. If you just be supportive nd let her do all the LBing then he will come back. The fog is already lifting help make is disappear. Don't let OW make the fog thicker. God Bless and goodluck

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He is not staying with his mother his clothes are he is staying with an old friend from what I have found out is that they have been fighting and was fighting when he had my kids around. She kicked him out he has no job got laid off and no car, bounced checks(I do not have any more to give him so that is not my problem his checking account does not have me on it). His attorney has stiffend him with money he got from his retitrement. I got 58% of that he got the rest his attorney took half of what he got. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> He dug himself into this hole i just hope that he digs is way out of it.
There is only three people who can restore our marriage me, him and GOD. I have a good feeling I hope I am right <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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