Well Hello to All,
I see some familiar names....it has been over a year since I posted at MB. Well a quick update...My H moved out last October and was with OW immediately....I filed for Divorce in Decemeber of last year ....still not divorced...not sure when it will be final. H has since moved in with other woman...as of August of this year...they have a new house, two new vehicles...all the latest toys....Our children...we have three sons....oldest one (15 1/2) will have very little to do with H....other two sons....soon to be 11 and 3 visit him every other weekend at his and OW home....he still hates the sight of me....says I ran him off...neglected him...the same old story....that he is happy with OW and living the good life...so...I guess I will be single sometime in the next few months and am wondering how all will work out....back to your question ....did he leave because of OW....yes, I believe that....I believe that no one leaves until there is someone else waiting in the wings....yes, if she hadnt been available for him...we may have been able to work out our problems.....I do think it is much easier for the WS to leave rather than face the difficult task of saving the marriage.....working through the pain is difficult and so many of them opt out to just make a fresh start with thier new found loves.....it's so sad to see them throw away everything.....not even realizing it.....and yes, it hurts so verry much.....so.....after a years absence from the sight....I am back looking for support now that I feel there will not be a second chance for us.....At this point, I dont have it in me to continue to hope......It still amazes me that parents can just walk away from their families.....anyway.....I am trying to heal myself, realize that I need to be whole before I can be involved with someone else and just see what God has instore for me.....really not looking back at this point.