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I got all the feed back from everyone. I can say I'm a little upset. But after rereading my posts I have not told everything. MY WW believes that OM is a docile man who wouldn't hurt anyone. He was a friend of mine and my rodeo partner before all this happened. I know him unlike she does. I can safely say she is tired of him. However she does not want to be with me yet. I have a feeling she wants him to leave. They are staying at her parents extra house they usually rent out. She does not want us to fight. She called me only because of what he said. He was mad and blowing off steam. He would never come around here. My parents and grandparents live next door. He is not that stupid. I overreacted when she told me about what was going on.
Here is what is going on today. I am picking her up from work and she is going to stay at the house tonight. She has a low self esteem and can not tell someone she is leaving. She was not even going to tell me she was moving out until she was gone. For some reason she will not stad up to ayone. This is one of my conditiond for her to come back is she must get help for this problem she has. I know it sounds like she is using me to get rid of him but with him out of the picture it will be much easier for me to show her it can be better at home. Anymore threats and I will inform the police and make sure myself, daughter, house and property are safe.
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Wrngler,
I'm very sorry if you were upset by my answers. Based on what you said I would not change my advice, but then we are all in a different place and I am sorry if I offended you.
Good luck...
<small>[ December 01, 2002, 08:17 PM: Message edited by: Ladysing58 ]</small>
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It's not that anyone offended me I guess it's just that the truth hurts and I only wanted to explain why I feel the way I do. I am at a point where yes I want my wife to come home but moreover I'm concerned for her safty.
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Well everyone you can get ready with your I told you so. I took dinner to WW and we talked. OM called and with his magic spell was able to get her to feel sorry for him. I was out and he came to get her. My WW and I are suppose to meet tonight. We will see what happens. Gotta go to work.
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