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Well it should come as no suprise my WW broke our plan tonight. We were going to go out and have a few drinks and talk about things. Instead she is decorating christmas tree with OM. This is going to be a lonely christmas. WW got mad at me today. Said I screwed up her credit. I had nothing to do with this one. I talked to her later. She appoligized and then broke our plans. I'm kinda feeling down right now. Things were going great but OM kissed major butt and now they are good again. Oh well I guess I'll wait and watch. OM is bound to screw up again. He's a born screw up. I guess I'll eat now and see if my friend still wants to go out.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> OM is bound to screw up again. He's a born screw up. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You have a distinct advantage here, use it. You know what sets this OM off balance. But be sure that your WW and D etc are protected. I don't want to sound overly optimistic but it sounds like trouble in paradise and the real world is comin' home.
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Your wife has really no incentive to reconcile with you. She has the best of both worlds, a lover and husband who will take her back. Of course, you have no control over her actions but you do have control over what you will accept. As things stand right now you have no marriage. Waiting for the OM to fall flat on his face so that she will return to you is in my opinion not going to solve anything. It will only put things in limbo. Either your wife wants to grow up and be a loving faithful wife and mother or continue playing this childish drama with the OM. She needs to see that you are tired of this drama and that you are ready to move on with or without her.
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I didn't take long at all for OM to screw up. They had a big fight tonight. My friend called my WW unknown to me and asked her to join us at the bar. Well OM found out from caller ID an blew up. He stormed out and has not come back as of 10:00 p.m. WW called me I said that's too bad. She got mad because I wouldn't be sympathetic. I'm tired of her breaking plans and making empty promises. She says we will get together tommarrow night for drinks but I'm not holding my breath. If she only knew how much I was hurting right now.
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