Hi everyone....the other nite H and i went out for coffee. He usually meets up with some of his male friends that drive tow trucks. These men are all married and there wives are at home obviously cause they are on-call working. Anyway, we get our coffee and all sit in our vehicles in the corner of the donut shop parking lot. After about 10 minutes a female teenager gets in to one of the guys trucks. I dont know these wives personally, but a protective feeling for this fellows wife came over me. I did not act on my feelings, but i felt like going over to the truck and telling her, get out , this is a maried man, shame on you, he has kids and a wife at home. I imagine the wives could accompany their H's , but they are at home with the kids. Anyway i felt disgusted over it. I spoke with H about it when we got home and he said its none of our business (which he is right), and he hugged me and said "Hun, dont go there". Anyway, really dont know what the point of my story is, other than the fact that i felt bad for the wife. A/C0810

Hi A/C,

Sorry to hear your story. I have become aware of and heard so many stories too that sicken me about A's. I never really thought about it much till it happened to me. I guess there is nothing we can do but pray for those involved. Hope you are okay.

Take care

Sharon

A/C,
Beside the infidelity issue, a teenager could be jailbait, statutory rape.

Do you know the wife? If so, tell her. You saw it, it isn't hearsay. Who among us wouldn't have wished to know? If it was, say the guy's niece, he can explain it.

I appreciate the people who told me who they saw my H with....

Hi Ute and Lor

I dont know any of the wives, actually i barely know the men. The only reason i met the men is because i am trying to meet H's recreational need. This is only the first time i have even seen the guys. This is one of my H's pastimes for years now going out for coffee and chatting with his buddies. I dont know if the teen was that young, she even might have been around 20, it was dark so i really didnt know. I guess my advice to everyone is try to enjoy your H's recreational pastimes, so this kind of stuff doesnt happen....thanks for your replys..A/C0810