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I broke plan B rules and had horrible phone conversation with HW. He was so hateful towards me and blame my weight for his A and has taken no responsiblity for state of M. I did not honestly know he was unhappy in M. Honestly I was the one who took care of everything while he focus only on himself and career. He could be the poster child for MLC.
I know OW she is a very bitter person who has few friends. My H personality has become just like her. His coworkers are all shocked by his behavior and the A.
I sent him email which stated that phone coversation was the reason we should not have anymore verbal conversation with one another.
I just can't believe he hates me so much now. I hope that my conversation has not ruin chance to try save M if the A ends.
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Have I blown my chance to save M
No. Sometimes the ws needs to hear the bs get angry.
Not to say I would recommend it but soemtimes it happens.We are only human after all and sometimes stuff like this happens. Even in a "perfect" relationship. It's how it is handled afterward that matters. Seems you did okay.
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Chris, thank you! I have been beating myself up since the call. I have heard that he was courting her children and has been ignoring our sons. I told him in the conversation that he finally had the daughter he wanted and that I would find a father for our sons who would want them and enjoy being with them. That shook him up!
H knows my weaknesses and was playing off of them.
Thanks again Rhonda
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