that the reason he feels my W called me last Saturday is because she misses me too. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> We talked about 3 hours until 2 a.m. She could have talked just 30 minutes, but she acted like she wanted to talk. Well maybe my mistake was not cutting it short, but I wanted to show her I could fulfill her EN's. Next time I will do that.....I promise. Anyway he might be on to something. She is lonely and she is familiar with me. One of her needs is conversation. She did say that emailing that guy on the I-Net while we were together was wrong and she apologized to me. That felt good to me. She said it was kind of therapuetic for her.

I will go on my merry way and let her decide now. I have said everything I can. She knows my desire........now I must wait for hers. Maybe she will have a hard time signing decree when laid out in front of her.......maybe that's when it hits home. She knows the possibilities with me, but if she's afraid of trying then I can't do a thing. She has to find it in her heart and mind. I love her dearly and wish WE hadn't let it get to this point, but maybe we both learned a valuable lesson that will make us better people. I just hope eventually we can become good friends again.

I just hope she calls again. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I need to know......should I pick up my daughter even more than I am. Does this show her anything that may help her decision? If so I will try to do more of it, but my business demands a lot of my time. I wish I was wealthy and could spend every available minute with my D. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

<small>[ December 06, 2002, 10:44 PM: Message edited by: AlanArthur ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by AlanArthur:
<strong>... Well maybe my mistake was not cutting it short, but I wanted to show her I could fulfill her EN's. Next time I will do that.....I promise. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Promise me that you will keep her on the phone as long as she wants to ... If you don't fillin her EN she will try to find a sub. for it and it won't be you for sure. Don't deviate from your plan A !, you have done enough damage o'k !!!.
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><strong>I just hope she calls again. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">It just a matter of when, we could bet 2 tickets to see 007 that she will call before Monday. Are we on ?.
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><strong>I need to know......should I pick up my daughter even more than I am. Does this show her anything that may help her decision? If so I will try to do more of it, but my business demands a lot of my time. I wish I was wealthy and could spend every available minute with my D. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hey, pal ... I think you need to be cryo for a few months. Stay put and stay on course ... you have hard time already with what you have to do, don't add anything or taking anything out.

I hope you still wear you wedding ring ... I took mine when I had decided not to take her no more. You still want her back and you better keep that ring on your finger.

-rh-