Topie, on another post you wrote,

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I wish I could have done that during my plan A! I would always take it too far, and end up LBing </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Forgive me, I am not familiar with your situation and perhaps if I would be it would answer these questions for me, but anyway...

How long were you in Plan A? Your sig line states you don't want your H back, does that mean you are no longer doing Plan A and therefore doing Plan B?

This is where I am coming from. After my d-day I did Plan A before I found this site and knew what it was but then I started pleading, begging, etc. I then found this site and started doing Plan A. My W noticed the difference after a few weeks (we are separated, she's in another state). But, where I kick myself is in not being able to do a "good" Plan A; like you, I would end up LBing. Jennifer told me to give Plan A two more weeks and then start Plan B, but I feel like I didn't make it safe for my W to come back.

How do you feel about your Plan A overall?

Thanks for your input.

Although this is directed to Topie, if anybody else wants to chime in by all means do so. Her comment made me feel like I said it myself that's why I directed this post to her.

Anyone who's done Plan A and feel they have LB along the way, please add your comments.

Thanks.

`I stayed in Plan A thru the whole thing, and I don't think that I should have, that I should of went to plan B at sometime.

XH did do somewhat of plan B to me or so I thought!!! Then found out why I didn't talk to him for a month was that he had moved OW in with him and he couldn't lie to me about it so avoided me.

I did plan A before I found this site, then did a better plan A, the one thing that I wish I had done in plan A was to have written down what my plan was, I just kind of floated thru it without much general direction so didn't get the outcome that I had hoped for.

Anyways that is my 2 cents worth at this time!!!

Just an FYI Topie has very limited MB access right now so might not see this right away bump as needed!!!

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