I posted a reply to my old post, but it's buried again so I thought I would direct you there this way. I've posted some in Emotional Needs as well. I'm confused as ever with everything. My husband is really taking me for a ride. I'm feeling like a rug in a mud room and not just a stinking doormat!!!!

I have to wonder if he does it on purpose. I have to wonder if he isn't using me to take care of his girls when he has then for visitation. It seems he's around more with them lately than without them.

I don't know how to address the happenings of the weekend either. I want to tell him how it all makes me feel. I mean, playing house until midnight or 1 AM and then having him leave to go sleep at his house is not my idea of a marriage. It also confuses me that he continues to NOT pack up his things and take his belongings.

Oh well, catch up in emotional needs on my HELP!!!! thread and see if you can give me any more advise.

I'll take anything I can get right now!

Your story is a parallel to mine. I may not have the best advice but I can understand. My WW wnts me to go to her work, bring her food, visit with her, and bring our daughter by to see her. She acts loving and always gives me a kiss. She then goes home to OM and sleeps with him. None of her stuff is packed up. It is all still here in the house. She does not talk of divorce. I can only say I hav shown her nothing but love and support. I have made coming home look great. I have been working on myself and seeng a counseler. I have had one miss fire reconciliation. Al I can say is work on yourself and try to make coming home look great.