thanks everyone-i do own that weekend!!!
for so long i was afraid of it, but im not anymore. i have mourned and cried and moved on. we will not sweep things under the rug, we will deal with them. we are learning together. its wonderfull.
and for all you newbies reading this and wishing to be here-it was a long hard road. you too can do it-it takes time and patience.
my one small glitch in the whole thing happened when i met husbands superior, he by the way is sleeping openly with the owners daughter, who is his superior, and married with kids. when he came by to say hi, husband was out at the bar getting a drink for me, he introduced himself and asked about whereabouts of my hubby. i told him he's at the bar. his reply was "i was just at the bar, and he is not there. you might wanna go find him, you know your husband. haha." the table was floored-and they dont even know what is going on. i sat silently and smiled, knowing he has an idea hubby cheated. hubby fought him not to bring ow back to company-so hubby figures he kinda knows.
so later in the evening we went around thanking the owners and saying hi. his superior was standing with the married woman he is sleeping with. it was her we needed to thank for the party. so we went up and said hello-i hadn't seen her in 2 years. i asked about herhusband and family, cause i didn't see them at the party?? his face dropped!!too bad!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
hubby thought it was hysterical-he doesn't really like either of them. i did do it graciously!!
