Subject line says it all.

Jo

I certainly apologize for offending anyone. Obviously, the intention of posting was not to have a public battle with his ex. I will not return to the site. She can have it and hopefully it will be growthful for everyone. Good luck to everyone.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by kaniston:
I certainly apologize for offending anyone. Obviously, the intention of posting was not to have a public battle with his WIFE</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Correction above in bold, Kaniston..

You are still welcome here, however, respect is a must.

God bless and guide you in the right decisions,
Jo

<small>[ December 14, 2002, 04:40 PM: Message edited by: Resilient ]</small>

*sigh*...There are none so blind as those who refuse to see. You came to MB (that would be Marriage BUILDERS!!!-no WRECKERS) and asked for advice. What did you expect dear? You have turned a deaf ear to some very good insight. I sincerely hope you do not experience all the pain that I believe you will before you learn. Good luck to you also. I truly mean that.

Please don't shut it down. In the days I've been lurking and posting, I've never seen so much activity on a weekend day. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Sorry Whippit, but that thing had to go.

Kaniston, thanks for not posting at MB again.

Magnolia

I'll survive. I'm not sure how, but I will. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

Ratz!!

I only made it to page 2. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Estes

sorry guys i had to set her straght. To many asumptions, and untruths. I had to respond.

Sorry for being such a tattle-tale, you guys. There was just some pretty raw stuff said, def not marriage building stuff either.

Lv,
Jo

I agree ... but you gotta admit she gave good forum there for a while. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

LOL

Whippie, you're naughty. You get a time-out. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Personally, I felt for both Kaniston and GoodCatch. I wanted to help Kaniston see that nothing good could come from an adultery-based relationship, but you can only lead a horse to water .... as they say.

I wish we all could have done more for her. Things just got ugly.

Jo

I had enough of her after one post.

I looked for Affairs-help. It is I cannot find it. What is the web address. When I see some of these, I get nosey and want to check them out.

Moi? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Oh MAN!!! I had some GOOD STUFF in there. I wish I would have copied and pasted it first **insert big pouty lips here**.

I understand Res...it got a little too raw, and in front of an already hurting party.

Mrs. Goodcatch, I hope you stick around. We could probly actually help you!

Sue, I actually used to post at that site years ago. I got the address out of the back of her book, After the Affair. I tried it today, however, and it didn't work. The reason I didn't stay at that site was because it seemed that everyone was stuck and moving nowhere. I wanted to go where I saw progress. I like it here!!

Yes, I hope Mrs Goodcatch does stick around. She needs all the help she can get!

It is www.affairs-help.com but the server is down:(. Unbreakable (on affair-help) is the remarkable 'good catch' here. She is an incredible woman and we have all grown very fond of her over there. She is 23, has 5 children and of all the BS's on the board, she has it most together. She could show us all a thing or two on how not to hate OW and be giving and generous with your cheating spouse. She has freely given and let him go to the max anyone can, and still he has to defend OW. So blind still. Sigh!

Wow!??!?! I leave for a few hours and what happened?!?!? Did I open a can of worms or were the worms already crawling out?!?!

Decided (OM) and Kaniston (OW)? What a pair. Sounds like things are toast. Well one will eventually give the other what each deserves. I wonder how much time each spends (Decided and Kaniston) wondering 'if' the other is being faithful enough?!?!?

I am sure both had some redeeming qualities but they also had enough of a bad attitude to ruin their individual relationship with the most important person in the universe. To each their own. They also have the choice to keep it that way or fix it.

Remember - no one can control them or tell them what to do and actually expect them to listen. Everyday they go out and 'pretend' to be a family, they will be reminded that their family is a facade and will only fool some of the people some of the time.

Of course, they are probably saying the same about us.

GC should make sure she keeps a copy of what decided posted. That way when he tries to forget he ever posted that way, the proof will be there. Funny how the mind likes to suppress the truth in favor of a fantasy.

By the way, I did not know GC was the BS. Actually it was more of Kaniston's posting that made me think about it.

Helped by an OW!?!?!?!? See, I told you that OWs slip up sooner or later. Got the LB going all over the place.

L.