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Gift for OW?
#1045424 12/17/02 01:35 AM
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I just thought of the perfect Christmas gift for my H's OW. Did anyone else ever want to do this? I would love to send her a huge letter "A" colored scarlett of course. I know it's not very nice but either is she and I'm having an angry day.
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Hi OLB,

IMHO, it's okay to fantasize about this stuff when working thru forgiveness. I still have fantasies of passive revenge regarding OW. Hopes for her A demise with my ex-H.

Just try your best to keep them fantasies, don't let revenge take over, it seems as tho it would be gratifying, but I believe you would feel bad later. Plus, you don't want to be brought down to her level. Leave the ugly stuff up to her.

Love,
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Boy, I would love to send my H's OW that very same thing with one exception. She sent my H an oversized book of art prints. I would like to draw the A on every page and mail it back to her. (Yes, the book is in my possession.)I am not going to do it because she isn't worth my time and energy. To do so would just let give her the feeling of power over me.
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Realizing the "fantasy" part of it - what about a blow up male doll - she can leave yours alone then!

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