I have been lurking on the MB site for over a year now and its TIME for some real posting stuff but I am at a loss as to where the "proper" forum is for posting my intro/saga....where does one formally post when both spouses have been involved in affairs? I dont want to impose on a forum thats not specifically for BS's...and I dont want of "offend" by posting a "dual BS situation" ( for lack of a better description <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> ) ..BUT, I NEED to find a starting point as I am about loose not only my mind but my marriage as well!

Please direct me!

Welcome.

Thanks for being courageous enough to take a step in a different direction. I think that you're in the right place....

Please post. There are so many non-judgemental people that have great insights that they can offer.

Bluesage42 --

You're in the right place! In reality, there's a lot of overlap from one area to the next. Don't worry; just talk to us. GQII seems to be a catch-all, covering a lot of territory, so here for you is as good a place as any. It's also the "highest traffic" forum, so you'll get the most responses here. I agree that the category choices can be puzzling.

Welcome to MB (formally, since you've been lurking for awhile). You know already the wonderful support and thoughtful and considered advice available here; now it's your turn to partake!

Please post again soon and fill us in on things. A "dual BS situation" (like your term!) is not unheard of, but it also isn't an everyday occurence here. Was one a reaction to the other? Were the A's happening simultaneously? Are there children involved? How long have you been married? (that sort of thing). So, talk to us...

I am sorry for what has brought you here to MB. I know you're in pain with it. Remember that we're here for you...

Ammon

Hi Bluesage,

Welcome to MB. Post your heart out. We will listen. BS or WS is ok just remember this is a marriage building site so many of us are just a bit 'marriage' biased!!! LOL! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

You are probably familar with the concepts section above. MB helps many, not just couples. Parents, siblings, children, friends, etc have posted here in behalf of the couples so we have quite a variety.

Please share your situation when you are ready.

take care,
L.