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Joined: May 2002
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MadDad:
Easier said than done these days, but I'll give it a try. I'm afraid the notion of dancing would send him right back into the pits of he11. But we do like to go see live music. Maybe I can get a dolly and just wheel him and the couch out with me!
I believe his A was a symptom of depression. He needed something to boost his ego at the time and wanted to escape to a fantasy world. That's my theory. Unfortunately we haven't even had a chance to really explore this.
I gotta tell ya though, I am getting very tired of carrying the torch and being the one to make any effort to salvage our M. He's got a bad case of the guilty's he tells me, but it's like I have to make my H feel better about what he did to me and us. How much longer do I have to be this person. When does he need to start taking responsiblity and repairing the damage he caused?
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Joined: Nov 2002
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Okay I didn't want to disclose this,but since you're in a rut.Paxil works wonders it snapped me out of my negative outlook on life.If that's the meds he's taking,then give it at least two weeks once it kicks in it kicks in.He'll go from <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> to <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> heck they'll probably have to surgically remove the <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> from his face.
Good luck
md
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