Quote....if you want to try and have and outcome that is different you might try the priciples layed out here like maybe Plan A why not start a post that outlines your plan. the two post you have started while informative dont really explain what you intend to do to save your ??? relationship? infact they tend to lead me to believe that your just interested in where your gonna live now!

You obviously know nothing about the type of person I am, let alone have read everything I have written here. To make that statement was so hurtful and untrue I had to start a new thread as I felt it was disrespectful to stay on the original thread. Chaz before you make statements like that to someone, please have a good idea in a general way what type of person they are and what all the circumstances are. I felt judged and unfairly at that. I hope you could stop being so critical and one dimensional in your thinking about what you perceive as what I'm trying to accomplish in my relationship. And I ask this of you, before you make anymore statements like the one I quoted you on.....try thinking that statements like that are really silly to post, as if I would be here on MB and not worrying about where I am going to live!!! Come on Chaz, give me a break.

<small>[ December 18, 2002, 05:11 PM: Message edited by: Neesha ]</small>

bumping

neesha,

thats a bit like the kettle calling the pot black isnt it??

you ride in on a rail post what was probably the most revealing thing i have read from you of course in the vein of addressing me, and then have the nerve to be distressed because i addressed you back?

please.

No, I did not judge you, nor say anything that would infer that. I will take responsibilty for my words and actions, will you? And if you think your statement to me was justified about my living arrangements, than my point is well made as you having no clue about me as a person or my situation. But thanks for posting a response, as I do not think I will ever be the pot calling the kettle black as you stated. I did not judge nor criticize you just was posting.

[quote] it's weaknessess that maybe YOU don't have in your character.

were you not talking to me when you fired that one off? sounds pretty harsh and judgmental to me

He has to change, and SOME people choose not to, and so we go on learning from what we experience, does'nt make it anymore glorious now does it?

Some people like who? like me thats what you intended to say and thats why you took such great effort to highlight SOME aside from the rest of your text.

I needed to address Chaz

this phrase is super offensive to me for some reason condisending or as if i need addressing somehow.

do you at all see that you were being very judgemental and having not read any of my posts (which may or may not be true how would i OR YOU know that) you couldnt possibly have my interests at heart.

CHAZ!!!!!! It was my mistake, I did NOT (now read this part) NOT know YOU were the WS!!! That's why I apologized!!!!! Now Maybe you will understand that...So I had NO clue I was judging you as I was making generalities and not particulars!!! I hope this clears anymore misunderstandings because if it doesn't, there is nothing else I can say or do.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Neesha:
<strong>CHAZ!!!!!! It was my mistake, I did NOT (now read this part) NOT know YOU were the WS!!! That's why I apologized!!!!! Now Maybe you will understand that...So I had NO clue I was judging you as I was making generalities and not particulars!!! I hope this clears anymore misunderstandings because if it doesn't, there is nothing else I can say or do.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Im going home,

neesha, do you know what a backhanded comment is?

its really prevelant in how you wright, you present this pristene little presence and write as sweetly as you can very viseral things.

"I only wrote those things because i didn know you were a WS" so that makes saying those things ok or right?

another example is your accusing me of not knowing your story yet you clearly dont have any notion of mine yet you felt compelled to give your version of how oh wait you didnt know i was a ws thats right forget it.

"I hope this clears anymore misunderstandings because if it doesn't, there is nothing else I can say or do"

geez more of the same how nice of you to try...

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">"I only wrote those things because i didn know you were a WS" so that makes saying those things ok or right?

I guess you will see it anyway you want to Chaz, and take anything and twist it for your defense. When I first posted to you in the thread it was because you were sounding angry and some of your points were not balanced.

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its really prevelant in how you wright, you present this pristene little presence and write as sweetly as you can very viseral things.

I must have just really angered you Chaz, that's all I have to say.

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another example is your accusing me of not knowing your story yet you clearly dont have any notion of mine yet you felt compelled to give your version of how oh wait you didnt know i was a ws thats right forget it.

I see you take apologies well and I like that you can keep up such sarcasm. And I also surmise from our posts that you would not admit your mistakes or even apologize in your wrong assumptions. Take Care Chaz.