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#1046207 12/20/02 12:00 PM
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I have talked to allot of people and have been told that around the year and a half to two year mark most spouses seem to wake up and at least attempt a come back whether or not you take them or not. How many people have dealt with the I woke up and I am sorry is there a chance for us. Thanks

#1046208 12/20/02 06:10 PM
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My FWH "woke up" after one year. I was shocked actually. I attributed it to the shift in energy that I had when we spent a weekend away from each other and I realized that a year of Plan A was enough. I truly was ready for Plan B. And I knew that I couldn't do it, unless it was for real.

Without me saying a word...I think he knew. The fog was lifted and he has not looked back. There have been no incidents, no additional d-days, no indications, no fights. Now, I realize that it has only been a month, but that is the LONGEST no contact EVER.


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