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Hi
everyone, I usually post in the recovery topic, but I am not sure if we qualify for that anymore. My WH, who has been living with OW for 1and half years while I was in Plan B, finally came home last month. OW went back to her H. It wasn't but 3 weeks into recovery then he called her and that was all it took. He is staying the holidays to be with the kids and then leaving with her again. My question to anyone out there is.. if you think there is another chance he will come back if I start Plan B all over again? I did the best Plan A while he was home. But his withdrawal was pretty intense. He works in NYC and she works a couple of blocks away. Could not monitor what goes on there. I am hoping for another change when his fog finally lifts. What do you all think? Pookie4
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Hi Pookie,
I would say go back to plan B, and yes, there's a chance he could come back again.
He's started to waffle and things with OW won't be that rosy anymore.
It's not a relationship to be proud of, when they go back and forth with spouses and
leave devastated kids behind too.
How long has the A been going on? They often crumble at 2 years.
Your H's A shows signs of not lasting, just hang in there and take care.
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