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PEPPERBAND*****Please advise me?
#1046993 12/26/02 05:29 PM
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Hi Pepperband,

I have read your posts for many months and value your advice and opinions. Will you tell me what you think about my posts to C2M? I think you know her and her situation much better than I do, and I noticed that you didn't continue to post to her when she was so down. I'm wondering if, based on your life experience and your experience with C2M, you feel that it's not in C2M's best interest to post to her right now.

Will you please look at my posts on C2M's thread and tell me if you think my posts are beneficial or harmful to her? Thanks a lot if you have time to do this.

Happy Holidays!
Re: PEPPERBAND*****Please advise me?
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Well, hello! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I have been out of town for a few days ....

I think C2M appreciates your interest and your concern. I think your efforts are genuine.

I don't think I personally can offer her much right now. I wish her well.

Happy Holidays to YOU!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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Thanks Pepperband.

Yes, my efforts are genuine--my fear is that my efforts could be genuinely wrong, and that my posts will actually be harmful for C2M instead of helpful. And considering C2M's current emotional state, that is a very scary thought.

I hope C2M follows through and gives her dr complete information so that her dr can come up with an effective and complete treatment plan for her.

I believe that until the pain and depression are managed, neither she nor snl will be able to move on in ways that are good for both of them whether that is together or separately--and I believe that they both deserve better. Hopefully, they will be able to cut way down on the LB's while C2M is learning better ways of living with injury/chronic pain.

Thanks for replying to me Pepperband.

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