Onlyucan,
Not sure if my H is having a affair, there are things that make me think he has, but as i said not for sure. We lived together 7yrs b/f we were married and just had our 5th anninversey. He has allways lied to me on even little things, but i thought by getting married to him he would change toward the better, I should of known better. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> my H don't even take care of the bills like he should , but it does not do me any good to try and take over the bills as when i do he just takes the money for 1 reason or a nother giving me excuess why he needs it. We are allways broke and he makes very good money. Or at least he did, now he is laid off of work.He has lied to me sooooo much i can not trust him no longer. And the reason i think he has had affarirs on me is b.c 1 day i walked into my back bedroom and he was on the phone, when he saw me walk in i heard him say hey got to go!!!! Then when i ask him who he was talking to he said oh the unployment office , i said that can't be they are closed today as it was Washington's birthday. he then said well it was automated i said automated u don't talk to a automated machine. That was just 1 thing that made me think something was up. A nother was he has joined a gocart foraum and is allways going out of town to see the races, well 1 week end he told me he was going to go down to a gocart race and left on a friday afternoon said he would be back sunday. I ask him well can i go he said no! I said why not we could stay in a motel over the weekend together and both watch the races, he again said no i really can't afford a motel as i will be staying at my moms b.c the race is close by her house. So off he went. Came home sunday night late. I had a snoop software in my computer at this time that he did not know about. 2 weeks after the race was over that he had went to over the weekend i saw this in my snoop. all it said was did u have a wonderfull weekend that was it. Now a man will not ask a nother man that. U would think they would say hey how was the weekend or something like that. Plus i have been getting e-mails lately 1 saying in the address bar michelle_purple@yahoo.com then below that in the subject line saying have questions. Then below that just a blank screen. Plus here lately my H everytime the phone rings he jumps up to answer it, and he never has been that anxious to answer the phone. We have been reciving alot of hang up phone calls. and so much more
