It seems a great deal is written about what we want. We being women. Whether we are the betrayed or the betrayer...I think we want the same things. At least the women I know do....

Here is our list of what women want:::
*protect her
*defend her
*support her--home/work/church
*cards!
*flowers!
*e-mail her funny/sexy things
*Leave notes around the house/car for her
*Complement her around others
*Make her laugh once a day
*Hold her hand
*Kiss her every chance you get
*Fool around...not just for sex either <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
*never leave her presense without saying 'I love you"
*tell her she is beautiful..and often
*start a conversation about something other than yourself
*let her know all you appreciate about what she does and who she is.Tell her you are proud of her. AND THEN TELL HER WHY!!!!
*Plan a surprise date...start to finish
*notice her---(eyes, hair, clothes, wieght loss...etc)

To end this long post about what we need/want
here are two things NOT to do:

#NEVER be disrespectful behind her back. If you have a problem with something she does, the only one who needs all the details is her. Don't trash her to your friends, its not nice. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
# If you can't say it or do it with her watching you, then for God's sake (and the sake of your marriage) DON"T do it.

What do you think ladies?? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I needed to feel like I was the most important woman in my H's life, that I was all he needed.

I needed him to NOT have female friends.

I also needed him to listen to me, really listen to me, and value what I had to say, rather than acting as though I was wasting his time with my tedious concerns.

I needed him to be honest and open with me about how he was feeling at all times as well. I needed him to talk to me and tell me about what was important in his life, what was on his mind, what his hopes and fears were (rather than him telling these things to his female friends).

JB

<small>[ January 26, 2003, 02:38 PM: Message edited by: Jen Brown ]</small>