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I was thinking of giving my wife a special little gift and a Plan B letter on Valentine's Day. I thought this would be a good way to start it off. Do you think that's a good idea or am I thinking about this in a warped way?
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careful, 10 years from now, if you are still together, The holiday will be a bad reminder. (JUst my 2 cents) <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
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Starman,
I don't know about the gift. Just coming off a bleesed short plan B I think the gift and the letter might send mixed messages. Plus you don't want the letter associated with a holiday. Just my opinion. Plan B as scary as it is, works. They need to feel you letting go to realize what they are losing.
Please just remember to take care of you right now and believe in the plan B letter, it feels like giving up but it isn't.
Love ya!
Big Hugs!!!!!!!!!!
Layli
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You're right. Doing a plan B letter on any holiday, like it's a good thing, was a dumb idea!
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