How are YOU???

How did Thursday's counseling go??

Thinking about you...hope you are well....keeping you in my prayers.
be well

ARK

Hey, ark... I'm ok. Counseling was pretty much a waste of time. My H. when confronted on. Mon. said he couldn't make a decision. Thurs after C. we went out to eat and I asked if everything he had told me about coming back was a lie and he said yes. I'm just prettty much giving up at this point. His C. said we should spend more time together, well that's not the problem. My H. doesn't want to be with me. Why should I hang on? I haven't heard from him since Thurs night, we talked more and it is pretty useless. He keeps bringing up things that happened 22 yrs ago. I've been doing a lot of reading and he is a passive aggressive person to a T. Also he knows exactly how to make me feel guilty and push my buttons and make me cry. then he wants to comfort me. I'm just very angry at him. I don't really want to see him, I can't say anything good about him right now. I am doing things with friends and my kids but that doesn't fill the empty spaces. thanks for checking up on me!

Sorry to hear that all that stuff about Feb 1st was just crap....

Take the time you need to find some strength...
The empty space will fill up as you go along finding serenity being away from such emotional chaos...

Keep contact to minimal...if you are angry don't see him at all...and not because you don't have every right to be angry and hurt...but because some WS have this unique ability to turn any negativity back on the BS in the form of a weapon...and sometimes it gets to the point that our minds can't even grasp the thought process it takes to manipulate everything....off of their shoulders...right onto yours...bleeech...

Be good to you...peace will come daybyday...

Know that you are loved and worthy of being loved..and nothing he says or does changes that...
Our souls hold great worth and value...
peace to you and your home
ARK