To make long story short, WH has NC with ow. H however, doesn't want to leave but doesn't want to work on the M.

I asked this in my first post. Thought it might get more response this way.

The posts I've read on PlanA/B have really helped. I told him DDay #2 3/02 if he wanted ow to leave, and go be with her.( I also told him that 12/94.)

I am being as loving as I can be. Responsive to his needs. Will this go on forever?

No fighting, no arguing, just no response from H to help recovery.

Thanks for any advice. The posts I read here are such an encouragement.

God bless you all in this difficult journey.

me(43)BS/H (48)
married 23 yrs
1D 10/1S 18
DDay #1 12/94 admitted to EA only
DDay #2 3/02 admitted to EA only
recovering alone