Well, my WW's A has been exposed to the light, and she'll be coming back to the states on 02-21-03. I suspect she'll try to maximize her time with the OM when she's here -- or try to go on the offensive with the divorce -- which she can't get in three weeks.

So, how many think she'll contact me via telephone or in person?

God Bless!

In person.

What do you hope to gain from this particular question?

Collective insight, really.

In any case, I will just listen and be supportive of any decision she makes.

Thanks!

awake, do I think she'll contact you? Yes I do.
If she was truly born again/accepted Christ.
One cannot truly be a born again and not hear the Holy Spirit speaking to them. The truth is shown them, and they know their wrongs.
She now will decide which is more important to her, Christ, or OM!
You've no doubt heard the words, "Try the Spirits'?
NOw you will see who she really is and if her acceptance of Christ was truly heart felt.
Too many who profess to be born again, simply believe they can now do as they wish and ask forgiveness later. Having their cake and eating it too. Sadly, they will pay a very high price.
Now, you know that the bible says if she wishes to turn from her sin and stay in the marriage, she may thereby be sanctified by your faith.
But! she has to truly be repentant. If she isn't, then you are unequally yoked and God says no! Do not be unequally yoked. Adultery is grounds for divorce if need be.
Read the book of Hosea. Give her a chance, see if she is willing to turn from what she is doing and truly walk with God in his will.
I am a BS, and this is one condition I put on my WH. I can lose him before losing my soul! God comes first. So put it in prayers and watch.
God bless, LouLou

Ladylou:

Absolutely! When she told my Pastor why she was filing, she said that "God doesn't want me to be unhappy, does he?" My Pastor told her to read the Book of Job. She didn't. She was holding an EA that she couldn't admit, so she made up something to a Pastor.

She HAS to confess, repent and atone -- or be lost, period. The EA is now a PA, and she thinks having filed for DV absolves adultery. Filing doesn't even the change the legal status!

She's starting run -- but she can't hide from God. It's all coming to bear...