Hi there!
I know you haven't posted on here much, but I also know that the 3 times that you have posted so far, have been on some of my threads. On the first 2 threads, I asked you some questions that you never did answer. And now I'm starting this thread, in the hopes that you will feel comfortable enough to share your story, and if you need, get help and advice from myself and others on MB.
Firstly, I understand that your H is viewing child porn. Do you realize that this is ILLEGAL? And that you have the responsibility to do something about it? I suggested previously that you could either call the police to report it, or call children's aid, or any other similar agency. You need to protect yourself... and your children.
Unfortunately, if your H is a sexually addicted, then there is NOTHING you can do to save your M, UNLESS he sees that he has problems, and is willing to address them (through counselling, support groups, books, etc).
However you CAN save yourself, and the MB principles can help you. You can be stronger, and learn how to protect yourself by setting boundaries and sticking by them. We will help you as best we can. But we can only do that if you want us to.
Please respond to this post, and let me know how you are doing. Where are you, emotionally? Are you frightened of your H? Do you love him? Is he abusing you in other ways, aside from the porn? Have you talked to anyone else about this? Lots of questions, I know. I'm hoping that if you are comfortable in answering some of them, then they will help you to open up about other stuff.
Take care of yourself. If you don't feel comfortable posting on here, you can email me at topie25@hotmail.com , HOWEVER, it is to everyone's advantage to post on here. That way posters and lurkers alike, can gain more knowledge and understanding.
Karen
