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I am currently plan A ing my W. Not sure if its working but I am rolling with it. Actually right now I am thinkig to start a plan B but thats only because right now I am at a low point. But my Question is. I have a very nice Im Sorry card that I want to send. Should I send it to her and how much emotion should I put into it.
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Danny
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by sandcrab:
<strong>I am currently plan A ing my W. Not sure if its working but I am rolling with it. Actually right now I am thinkig to start a plan B but thats only because right now I am at a low point. But my Question is. I have a very nice Im Sorry card that I want to send. Should I send it to her and how much emotion should I put into it.
Thanks so much
Danny</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You are very far from plan B, don't even think about it. Now, what is your plan A ? do you mind list your plan actions ?.
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You know. I am very discouraged right now. Im really not expecting much but something would have been nice. I know I need to have patience.
I just feel maybe a plan B will work better being do far away.
As for my plan A. I have been very nice to her, showing her affection and telling her how proud I am of her. I have been showing way more interest in being a long distance father(sending the kids a lot of stuff they will enjoy). Im also trying to get home so I can start my life over and get my boys stable. Find a good job and become financially succure. Also I have been studying my [censored] off. Reading everything that I can get my hands on. I can notice a change in myself over the last few months. I feel like the whole last year I was in fog. I just wish she could see it.
What else do you think I can do. I am trying very hard but I think she may mean what she says by not loving me and possibly never loving me. I don't know maybe its just that I am very sad right now. I just want my family back.
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Hi Sandcrab,
I am sorry you are in this emotional state but it is very common. You have also laid out your path and are setting your goals. Right now concentrate on making them a reality. It will pay off.
This knowledge will help you through the depressing times and venting here helps also.
take care,
L.
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