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If you discover that your spouse is having an affair, and that the affair partner's spouse has no idea, do you tell them?
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The answer is yes. The belief is that when the affair is exposed to the light of day it ends much quicker. If you inform the OM's spouse of the affair the chances are strong that the OM will dump your wife to save his marriage. In addition, if the OM's spouse had found out first, wouldn't you have wanted her to tell you instead of leaving you in the dark?
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I would tell all, but I would wait until you can controll your emotions and words.
Then, tell all!
STTSI
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