i have been married for almost 9 months, been with her for over a year. lately she doesnt communicate with me, she hides herself under the bed covers till she is asleep. she is constantly depressed about her body even after ive told her she is the most beautiful woman alive. she continues to hold past mistakes against me even tho ive made ammends for those mistakes every single day for the past 6 months. before we was married she was so head over heels for me, wrapped around my finger and wanted all my love all the time. now its changed to no communication, all those hugs and kisses have simmered to an occasional peck on the cheek, unless i confront her and ask why. her family constantly brings her down, her mother, her aunts continue to ask her how could i be attracted to her. does that mean that before she can ffel comfortable inside herself again that she needs to her compliment from those that degrade her? i love my wife, id give her anything she wanted, id die for her. i need to know is there anything im not seeing, is there something more i can do? thank you for this time.

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