My Wh and I spoke this morning about his job change. He has been involved in EA with Coworker for a while now. He is leaving his job in June for a totally different career, but very soon(hopefully next week) he will be transferring to a different location, he says for 2 reasons, one the EA, the other is he needs change. He is still "friends" with OW. He told me this morning that he told her he will be leaving and she told him that she could not sleep last night, is upset, blah blah, blah. She has had problems with the last person that was in my husband's position and thinks that person will take My H place again. He tole her he is not staying just because she wants him to <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> (even though I am sure it wasnt worded like that to her). My reply to this was "she needs to take charge of her life and get a new job". My H didnt seem upset by this comment, I think in general he agrees. I think maybe my H is seeing how strong I am and how weak she is? Has anyone else seen this with their WS? Thanks
Married 4/88
2 kids 9 & 6
D-day-10/12/02-WH wants to leave, unhappy for 4 years. We deceide to work on marriage.
01/14/03-Wh says he is "not connecting" with me, I ask about possible EA with co-worker, he seems genuinely surprised and replies "yes". He then is definetely in the fog, OW wants him to move in.
02/12/03- WH tells OW "no committment to her, is staying with family. They still talk and e-mail. I am Plan Aing like CRAZY- seeing small results.