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By what I've seen since I've been here at MB, it appears that OW are more insolent than OM. They don't seem to have any qualms about rubbing the A on the BW's nose and sometimes even go out of their way to do it.

What do you think?

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I dont think thats it. I think women are on average more out spoken, we are also[and I hate to say this] more emotional <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

I think it may come across as if we dont care, but I dont believe thats it.
I think if you look at mb's men and women you would find women more out spoken and emotional. weather you are a bs or ws.

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Yep. I agree with that statement. The OMs tend to stand BEHIND the WS. The OWs stand IN FRONT of the WS and love to add fuel to the fire.

PBR is an excellent example. Here and her kind need to be boxed up and shipped out far out....... a place where fed ex doesn't deliver but is it really fair to dump something that toxic into the galaxy?

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

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Mom of five, of course not all OW are going to be insolent, but there does SEEM to be more insolence with OW than with OM.

Or maybe it's that OM are more chicken than OW and are afraid the BH will gun them down <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

<small>[ March 05, 2003, 07:24 PM: Message edited by: 2MuchCoffeeMan ]</small>

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you know that may very well be, an example might be.

om in our case, is a bully from way back, people are intimidated by him and he likes it. he would spend time threatening me, and trying to make me see things his way, how ever when we met with my husband and he saw I was letting my husband do all the talking, I was in shock, om kissed his butt, he was polite, respectful and agreed to the very same things I asked him to agree to. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> I just kinda set there in silence wondering what was going on.

I agree I was making most of the decisions, so in that standing in front of my spouse, but I couldnt get him to make any decisions so someone had to. However when he finally stepped in and started making some or at least helping, I feel like a thousand pounds lifted off of me, and I love it.

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Oh absolutely. Women are much more vindictive and nasty than men. Yet we rarely hear about the OM rubbing it in the BS' nose.


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