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About 4 weeks about ow called, WH bailed her out of Jail.
She says won't go to court unless he takes her or at least that is his story.

Court was at nine this morning.
He took her.

I am done.
Afair is ongoing at least 18 months (two years July) I HAVE DONE A GOOD PLAN A. I am done. B Letter written. His bag packed. OVER

NO GOING BACK

DONE

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NOTGOING

Sorry to hear..
Do what is right in you and for you...

think about where you want to get to...

Grace to you...
ARK <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

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I don't really know what i want.
I have been so focused on saving my marriage and making things better that i havent really planned a future without him. I thought if i would do a great plan a it would be enough. obviously i was wrong. I have asked for no contact on several occasions over the past year and a half. Of course he can't for what ever reason. My first imediate step is to kick him out. wtih my letter and his bag. and stop all contact with him. At first i am sure it will drive them together. Maybe that is where they belong. I can say, I should be a basket case knowing that they are together right now. Doing what ever. No medication, no tears. I'm ok. A year ago. I wouldn't have been ok. But now? JUST TIRED OF IT.
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