For those of us who's marriages ended and our WS ex's continued with the affair:

When did the affair start?

When was D-Day?

When were you divorce?

When did you WS move-in with the OP?

When did the marry?

How are they doing now?

When did the affair start?
EA maybe PA Jan 1997, stopped or not (restarted)
When was D-Day?
Oct 1997, Sep 2000
When were you divorce?
12/31/2002
When did you WS move-in with the OP?
OP move-in part time 90% with WS around May 2002
When did the marry?
Not yet but I really wish they do. I know my revenge is letting them live their fantasy and stare at the result.
How are they doing now?
OM is still calling his ExW (sick, telling her that I would thing about us and would dump Ex)and continue dishonesty with Ex. His ExW is getting stronger by day and will start dating ... OM thinking that he still could come back to his ExW and his ExW will shut down that thinking. Every single thing that she complaint about me ... she found it worst in OM, I was convinced that she was complaining about OM. She is too stubborn to stop and she will try to make it no matter what to prove to the world that she is right.

How abouy you ?
-rh-

I'll chime in:

1. When did the affair start?

To the best of my knowledge, the affair started up again in '1999 (originally was a ONS in 1991)

2. When was D-Day?

Suspicion of the affair was early on, but it was confirmed by him in late October '1999.

3. When were you divorced?

We separated on April 29, 2000, at 3:30p. Divorce was final on June 13, 2001.

4. When did your WS move-in with the OP?

When my husband abandoned me, he promised he would not move in with OW. Although they did have separate houses, they might as well lived together. They "officially" moved in together in mid-April '2002.

5. When did they marry?

They have not wed, although they are engaged. They have been engaged since Feb 14, 2002 (1+ year). I have heard the OW has said they can't get married because she will lose her disability if they wed.

6. How are they doing now?

The grapevine has told me that the OW has been cheating on my ex. She continues to frequent bars and participate in all that that implies, even tho she is "DISABLED" and refuses to work ... whoops, I mean "can't work". <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

<small>[ March 13, 2003, 06:47 PM: Message edited by: Resilient ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by I Did it Again:
<strong>For those of us who's marriages ended and our WS ex's continued with the affair:

When did the affair start?
August of 1999, or in childhood, depending on how I look at it

When was D-Day?
June 20, 2000

When were you divorce?
September 10, 2001

When did you WS move-in with the OP?
September 11, 2001

When did the marry?
September 21, 2002

How are they doing now?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Don't know