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in plan b but never sent a plan b letter
#1064384 03/20/03 10:43 AM
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well now i see i probably should have given h a plan b letter but i asked him to leave and hes living with her 400 miles away. how in the world could i send one? she would either read it , or intercept it (probably both). he has no email or mail at all, hes living with her. what could i do? should there be a letter in all situations?
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I really don't have any experience in the Plan B area, but I did not want your post to slip off the page. Hopefully, someone who has been there will come along with some good advice. Prayers to you, Ladysing
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Well, what was the last thing you said to him?

Sometimes, IMHO, you can enter plan B just by telling your spouse your conditions, verbally, not just in writing.

I know it says somewhere on MB that it should be in writing so the spouse can go back to the letter and read and reread it while they contemplate their choices, but if you were clear in your last conversation what you wanted, perhaps don't worry too much.

I haven't given my H a plan B letter, but he knows my conditions.

Jen

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