Hats off to those who showed love for rg instead of judgment. I just hope she was able to see the responses because I noticed that she hasn't posted any more replies <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

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<small>[ March 27, 2003, 09:02 PM: Message edited by: lj ]</small>

I haven't been here for a long while, but on coming back for a quick look this did catch my eye. You have to give some credit to redhat - sure
they stated the obvious but good on you. Not that anyone can wish the situation on to anybody but hopefully things will be learnt when the shoe is
on the other foot. Good luck to saving your marriage but be prepared for a lot of hard work. Perphaps you can now give some thought to what you did in the past & learn big time from it. Unless you learn what when wrong or why it is happening you will keep doing a full circle.

I noticed that she hasn't posted any more replies
This happens more than you might think. People go to a site, read a few quick things and post, then never return. Either they are confused as to what they want to do or they find someplace else or they just do nothing and continue on as they previously did.

Hi Chris,

Another possibility is that after reading certain replies, they are stunned and wouldn't know how to begin to post about their reactions or the things they are just starting to see in themselves as a result of certain replies...and then they are focused on applying the wisdom of the replies (sometimes certain questions seem to get the ball rolling in the right direction) and don't have time to type it all out. Btw, that is why I didn't post back to you months ago after you had made a few comments and asked me certain questions...but it helped me a lot and I thank you <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

rg--We all start where we start and we all carry our own baggage with us into MB. In my opinion, MB is an excellent framework to use while we open that baggage, sort it out, keep the good (meeting ENs), and throw out the bad (LBs). I hope you are busy reading the info on this site and I hope you will post again if you need assistance in applying MB principles because there are people here who can help.

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