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********Warning Venting**************************
Who does Ms Rly. think she is? I mean over the past three years she has been so dishonest, so mean, so fake. She has taken me to the cleaners financially. She has been so manipulative by being sweet to lure me in, then just casts me out.
After all of this, I still get phone calls to chit chat, to tell me about what music groups are coming to town, all sorts of stuff like that. I mean I seriously don't know how to read this woman. I don't want to LB or be mean but if this is what she wants...i.e. to be legally seperated/divorced, to date etc...then shouldn't she leave me the heck alone?
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Why on God's green earth would she still do this? What is her motivation?
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Have you gone into Plan B? Have you given her a Plan B letter?
If not, maybe that is the reason that she is doing it. You haven't exactly told her otherwise. If you don't want that contact from her, tell her so. Then, stick with it.
If you are asking the question from an analytical angle, I am afraid that I can't help you there. I can only say that she does it because she can, and you are not putting a stop to it.
JMHO
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She does these things to you because she knows she can do these things to you because you allow her.
It is a mind game that she enjoys in manipulating her. Tell her you are done with the game and moving on with a future with someone who is real and does not play games. A person can hurt you only when you allow them to hurt you. It is time to stop the drama and the madness.I wish you luck.
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I'll add the possibility that the appearnace of normalcy may serve to mask over feelings of guilt or others thoughts that what she did was "right".
I feel that it may not be in your interest to allow this to continue.
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Why does she do this...because she can.
CAKE EATING....CAKE EATING....CAKE EATING...CAKE EATING!!!!!!
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