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#1066552 04/03/03 10:06 AM
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Back in town, and saw W yesterday. The ring is back on and we are goin to recover! I know we will.

More later.

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Wonderful News!!!

I know you guys are going to make it! Just be slow, have patience and take things one step at a time.

Really listen to each other and be great communicators.

Are you both going to start counseling? I know that was a big help to my H and I. Our counselor really gave us some great ideas to help us with our communication and helping to talk out our feelings.
Posting and reading here really helped me understand my husband's feelings and what he has been going through. He said that counseling helped him alot to understand some of what I was going through. And together we're learning alot!

I'm praying for you both.

Keep us updated!!

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That is indeed good news and you two should celebrate.

But remember what I told your W, DO NOT implement any advise from the boards without checking with Cerri first.

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Congratulations,

I think both you and your W have a lot to be hopeful for. Both of you keep up the good work.

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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Congratulations.....Now the hard part begins.

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YEA - HOO!!!

So, One day at a time, things will get better! STTSI and I leave on Sunday for a week - so keep us in your thoughts and prayers <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

- Mrs. STTSI - <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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I'm VERY happy for both of you. You will be in my prayers. I wish you good luck and a happy NEW marriage together!

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Thanks to all of you for your thoughts prayers and advice!

As my W said we are going on a trip together for a week next week. I am starting to look forward to it and I know she is. Mrs. STTSI and I have spent some wonderful moments together since I got back in town and I am looking forward to adding more to them.

Thanks again!

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OK so I didn't realize that my W left herself logged into my computer. That was Mr. STTSI that posted as imready2try.

I am getting confused, anyone else?

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Mrs. STTSI here -

Sorry Mr. STTSI <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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But remember what I told your W, DO NOT implement any advise from the boards without checking with Cerri first.

I agree with coffee wholeheartedly. Remember, as well intentioned as we are, we are ametuers. Cerri is a pro. Congrats to the both of you. Kily was right, now the REALLY hard part begins. It's well worth the effort though. Good luck!!!!

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Mr and Mrs STTSI:

This is really cool! Good for you both!!

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />
♥Qfwfq

<small>[ April 03, 2003, 04:24 PM: Message edited by: Qfwfq ]</small>

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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

How do you do the heart symbol - I forgot. Wanted to give Mr & Mrs STTSI a few hearts.

<small>[ April 03, 2003, 07:07 PM: Message edited by: Sue with hope ]</small>

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This is indeed good news. Like kily said, now comes the hard part. Got Counseling? Later. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

-Luki

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Dear Mr & Mrs STTS, you are invited to a MB get together at my house on April 25th. See the tread MN Potlock in JFO.

P.S. You've reconciled, I am happy to see. Good for you! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

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SwH:

& h e a r t s

Without the spaces. Works for spades and puppy tracks, too! But not for diamonds, for some odd reason.

-Qfwfq

<small>[ April 04, 2003, 11:29 AM: Message edited by: Qfwfq ]</small>

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Thanks

Didn't work- I tried

<small>[ April 04, 2003, 06:16 PM: Message edited by: Sue with hope ]</small>

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Try taking out the spaces between characters?

So that & h e a r t s becomes 7hearts, with the & instead of the 7?

&hearts
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The ring is still on - even after our trip together! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Things are going okay for Mr STTSI and myself! Thanks to everyone for continued support and prayers!!

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Congratulations to you both!!!!!! How inspiring... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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