I'm just writing a short thank you to everyone on this board, and to Dr. Harley for having this website in the first place. You guys have all saved my marriage.

After finding out that my WH was having an EA, I read everything on this board, ordered books and tapes and devoted myself 100% to finding out what went wrong. I realized that I have been taking from my WH, rarely giving. So I have turned from taker to giver, and found that when I give, he gives in return. Our marriage is stronger now than it has ever been, and hopefully with more MC, it will be stronger still.

I took to heart depositing in the LB, lost 22 pounds, started taking care of myself. I work out with him every day, sit and talk, hold hands. I've decided that my body isn't so bad, so I show it off by getting naked in the jacuzzi with him. He wanted a mistress, now he has one...but it's also his wife.

We were able to head to recovery so quickly because the EA was short, I know that everyday I must continue to work on my marriage, it is the most important thing in my life.

Again, I want to thank everyone on this board for their insight, advice and support. I love all of you and pray for each of you to find your marriages again.

Best wishes for a full and speedy recovery!
It's nice to hear the success stories, it gives us hope!
Good luck & keep up the good work!

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Gosh that sounds so good!!! It's a great feeling isn't it?? I'm experiencing the same thing and I too am so gratefull that I found MBers.

Take the care of yourself and Enjoy everyday!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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