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I am quite new here, but learning quickly. I had to post this little gem from WH: Why can't you see this from her point of view? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> I tried and tried and tried, but I really couldn't muster any true empathy for OW. And I tried and tried and tried, but I couldn't help laughing when he said this!
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i know i try to tell my h all about ow, has a boy friend, is cold, selfish, is a bad person for doing this! and he says you dont know her dont say anything bad about her! how could he not see if she was such a wonderful person she never would have hurt another soul!! he actually thinks she really loves him,even though after 8 months, she hasnt any effort to prove it!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
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Why? Because of the fog. Gotta learn to return fog with foggier..... makes their head spin but who cares? It is already spiraling downwards as long as they are deep in the A. Take that sarcasm with a grain of salt. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> L.
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where can i read more about fog? you know different things that they say? why they cant see what is right in front of them how it affects their memories? first my h said he hasnt been happy for a year now suddenly it turned into 2 years, he coulda fooled me, where was i when he was so misserable? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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Here's another couple:
She says you're the one who is being selfish here - and I agree with her.
She's not a bad person, if you knew you'd like her.
My WH is a smart person - why is he being so utterly DUMB?????
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by ClaireL:
<strong>Here's another couple:
She says you're the one who is being selfish here - and I agree with her.
She's not a bad person, if you knew you'd like her.
My WH is a smart person - why is he being so utterly DUMB?????</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Because his brain has been so scrambled that he can't see how ludicrous, and laughable his statements are. Until he gets his head out of his a** you'll continue to get more howlers like those.
<small>[ April 17, 2003, 04:23 PM: Message edited by: T00MuchCoffeeMan ]</small>
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Claire: "She's not a bad person, if you knew you'd like her." My W said this about Rat Meat last year. I wish I had said my response, which I posted on here the next day: "I don't care if he's the spittin' image of Jesus on the cross!!!" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Maybe I will one of these days! -Qfwfq
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Ok I'll play too. My FWS ( God bless his soul he's a wonderful H now!) said I think you two could be good friends, you are a lot alike. BLECH! YUK! NOT!
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It's so strange how these types of fog comments can make you laugh one minute, and feel so sad the next.
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Guess who can be more in a fog than a WS? A mother-in-law! Two things she has recently said to me:
"You know you are lucky....he (my H) attends the kids baseball games. HIS father never did because he was always running around."
Does that mean my H gets a @#$% gold star because he can do both!!
Another one from the MIL just the other nite after I caught her son (H) at the OW's apartment and I was coming unglued:
"Can I call you back, American Idol is on."
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My H's gf told him he looks just like Tim McGraw only 10 times better and my H has sexier lips.
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Just wanted to point out that Ted Bundy was a "nice" person too! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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How about:
"Poor OW, her husband hit her and made her bleed"
So, I guess it's only the physical wounds that hurt; the emotional wounds, scars, torment inflicted on your family don't really count? Gee, you're such a great guy coming to her rescue like that! And isn't OW's H such a [censored]!
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xH's best one I thought was, "I am doing all of this for my love of her" he seemed to have to do alot for his love of her!!! Dawn <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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How about what the OW said to me when I confronted her on the phone about what she was doing to my marriage....
First in response to her meeting, spending the night with and playing house with wh and and wh's and My kids... I told her it was not right to have the kids in this situation and that they were damaging the kids....
OW said- "I had to leave it to his judgement" "he knows best"
Also when I talked to ow about getting out of the situation with my h---
she said something like ... "time well tell if our love will last... "- I was standing in my kitchen.... and almost thought I would fall over.. both of these comments were within a couple of weeks after wh left and around 2 wks after D day, and the A had been going on maybe 6 wks.
WH says things like:
I was never happy in our marriage.
You (me, bs) have always been violent.
The really big whopper:
I told you a year before I left I was going to lose weight, get a better job, find an ow and leave you. ??????? He swears this is true, STILL. I never heard him..... maybe I did and just thought it was ridiculous since we were continuing to have so many happy times....?
I can go on and on... UGH>
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my favorite will allways be when my husband told me it was MY fault for his affair!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> my reply: yes dear, it was all my fault! i unzipped your pants, got your di** hard and shoved it in her repeatedly!! and i might add on more than one occasion!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> boy did that snap him out of that moment of fog!!
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My personal favorite was on d-day when I was FURIOUS I told my H OW would lose EVERYTHING she held dear, I would see to it. He looked at me and said, "I am begging you...please don't hurt her, she's been thru so much and her ex-H threw her out of their house with no where to go" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> BOOOO HOOO! LOL When I told him I would immediately get tested for std's he looked at me and said "she's NOT like that..." <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> Then later found out..Uhh..she IS EXACTLY LIKE THAT!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
But...alls well that ends well, right?
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" im not leaving the kids im leaving you"
even my 10 year old daughter said, but mom he is leaving us!
ow says what happens between you and him should not affect them!! how stupid to think they wouldnt be affected by there world falling apart
when hes mad its i dont love you, i dont want you anymore!
when he calms down its just remember ill always love you, your still my best friend ill always want you in my life, isnt that marriage? thats what i always thought marriage was !
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