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#1072048 05/09/03 02:12 PM
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after 1 month to the day she bailed . this has been a 1 time deal Ea(talked nothing more) and paid handjob,no not from same person. 10 yrs and it takes her less than a month to bail from marriage. she reminds me every chance that vow "faithful" but for forgets the part for better or worse. i just cant get it through my mind that its over with no hope at all. no shes not coming back she called the realtor and the lawyer 2 weeks in. sometimes i think she might have been waiting to jump overboard or theres someone else or i think too much and she just wants to run away.i shattered her world so shes shattered mine. can someone just wake me up from this nightmare.

#1072049 05/09/03 03:30 PM
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Remourseful Husband....do not feel so bad. My WS, with the encouragement of the "love" of his life, saw a lawyer two weeks after he left, and I was the betrayed spouse. He also went regarding visitation/custody rights, when I have never, ever stopped him from seeing his children. I filed because of issues other than truly wanting a divorce (more for asset protection), but, she is angry right now and will calm down a bit. Give her time. It does heal wounds.

#1072050 05/09/03 04:05 PM
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KARENA time may heal the wound but not the marriage. im sure she will calm to some degree. whew we have 13yrs of talkin til our daughter is 18.


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