Dear MB Friends, I am taking a break what do you think of this letter to WH of two years.
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I know that you wont be completely shocked with this letter as you know something is wrong. I have been waiting, hoping that thinkgs would get better between us. Hoping that I could meet your needs so that we could move on with our live together. However,

Saturday night, you accidentally sent me a text message you meant to send someone else. I can't do this anymore. I don't want to do this anymore. I won't do this anymore. And although I love you. I am no longer going to live like this. I appreciate your right to do as you please. I am now giving myself that same right.
I will be going to my sisters for the summer. I will be back around the first of August. Hopefully this will give us both the time we need to sort things out.
I know right now you are thinking about what this is going to cost financially. I will continue to make the house payment and the insurance (house and car). You will be responsible for all the rest of our joint bills. I will list them all for you so you won't get behind. I will make sure that you get to talk to the kids and I will bring them back for the fourth of July if that is what you wish. We may need to see an attorney. I am checking into that.

I don't want to fight about this. I don't really want to talk about it. I have talked and questioned you to death, and still don't have a clue 1 what the truth really is concerning our relationship, your relationship with TJ and your inappropriate friendship with Tanya.

Just wanted you to know what I am doing.

Just one year late on doing what we were going to do last year. Im Sorry

love,

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Hi notgoing..

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">..you accidentally sent me a text message you meant to send someone else. I can't do this anymore. I don't want to do this anymore. I won't do this anymore. And although I love you. I am no longer going to live like this. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">In my opinion that is a really good start. You are setting a boundary, your cup has just overflown and you cannot take it anymore.

I gather that you have been Plan A:ing for a year and you are still getting lies. His accidental message now proves it. The limit has to go somewhere. If your cup is really full I believe it is time to give him that wake up call so he actually realizes waht life is without you.

I am not in Plan B, I actually think I am in recovery (I think, so that is why I still Plan A). But because I think I am in recovery and should my WH lie once more to me, I will not hesitate to go to Plan B.

I just posted on another post that I thought that the principles suggested on the www.divorcebusting.com, would back up the Plan B perfectly for YOU, for your kids and maybe it would get your WH to wake up as well, so he will come crawling back to you, sorry for all the pain he has ever caused you.

But this is just my humble opinion and I do not know whether it is right or wrong.

I just want to say to believe that you know when you feel Plan B is right. You know when you have done enough, said enough and there is really not much more to say. Then it is probably best to stay quiet and see what happens.

Hope for the best for you
-queen-