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#1073819 05/19/03 09:50 AM
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I have to go out of town this weekend, from Friday to Tuesday night to take my son to his grandparents. It has only been about 2 weeks since the discovery of the A and last week I think I got most of the confession and I am having a hard time dealing with my feelings about leaving and him having her over here or him going and being with her while I am gone. can anyone offer me some advice on how I should handle this?

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Is he still denying the A? If not have you thought more about how to either catch him or clear him? Can he come with you?

If he hasn't admitted and he is having an A...I'm sure he will take advantage of this time alone.

If he hasn't admitted have you asked him to take a polygraph...innocent people have nothing to hide.

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yes he has pretty much admitted it because I caught him a many lies and busted by the neighbors with the girl being at our house more than once but he says all they did was talk about me and him and they were friends and he has not admitted to sleeping with her so I am having problems being that at all. He said she moved out of town to her boyfriends who lived about 2 hours away.


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